It’s 2025- I think it’s safe to say that compared to 25 years ago, people are becoming much more adept at setting boundaries and advocating for themselves. With that said, it’s no surprise that elopements and small weddings are becoming increasingly popular! More couples than ever are trading in big ballrooms and guest lists for cozy ceremonies filled with meaning—and it’s no wonder why.
More Meaningful Moments
It is so hard to accommodate every person in both the bride and groom’s families. If you don’t want to invite your great Aunt Carol and your 3rd and 4th cousins, then don’t!
Your wedding day is just that, yours.
It can be especially hard for those with families with traditional mindsets, which a lot of us have.
To be fair, they probably won’t remember not being invited to your small wedding a year from now. But you will remember all of the cherished moments and people that are close to you that made your day all the more meaningful.
Affordability
Elopements and small weddings are exceptionally more affordable than a large 300+ guest wedding.
When you aren’t spending your entire budget on extra food, seating, and the size of a large venue, that gives you more wiggle room to tailor your wedding day to be your dream wedding.
Whether that means you’re going to the Bahamas for a destination wedding, or you choose to have it in your hometown with all of the bells and whistles you may not have been able to have before!
Less Stress, More Joy
Small weddings also take away the distraction of a large crowd.
When you are not concerned with making it a point to stop and chat with almost every person in there, you will have the time for more meaningful moments and conversations with the people you hold closest to your heart.
I think the most significant advantage to a small wedding or elopement is the amount of stress you would be taking off of yourself. A lot of people shudder at the idea of an audience with all eyes on you.
Making your wedding day comfortable and a day of bliss is so important and generally would be a lot more achievable with less people you feel the need to impress or entertain.
Let Someone Else Do the Work
You can also consider a small venue that is all inclusive, why stress any more than you need to?
If you’re looking for a beautiful all-inclusive venue for your intimate wedding or elopement, The Melody by Moments to Remember offers stress-free, all inclusive packages that include everything you need.
We take care of everything including setup/teardown, tables/decor/linens, the cake, coordinating, photography, and more!
When it’s all said and done, your main priority for your wedding day shouldn’t be about anything other than you and your celebration of love. Don’t worry about who you need to appease, because you are the one that will remember that day for the rest of your life- make it what you want it to be!
Thinking about a small wedding or elopement? Schedule a consultation with us or browse our all-inclusive packages—your dream day could be easier (and more magical) than you think!
